She met the first one on a bicycle trip on the West Coast, and he happened to be Jewish; the second was a classmate in high school, the third a classmate in college, and neither was Jewish.
Right now she's not involved with anyone in particular.
Because the message then seems pretty clear to me, and it goes like this: In practice, I've tried this approach with my own children.
My daughter, who's now twenty-one, has had three serious boyfriends.
When it came to college students, I wondered if it was even healthy; I worried that it might unnecessarily push a young couple into early marriage, before they were truly ready.