I was going about my merry way thinking everything was , it was wasn’t.
After I got over my shock and anger, I was floored, not only at his behavior, which came out of left field, but how sharp a contrast this was to how we used to be. All we needed was for him to just change his mind with this ridiculous break up.
Sure, we’d had our issues, but once upon a time, we were in perfect sync and truly happy, and nothing like the situation on our hands now. So, I panicked and went on a single handed — through threats, through begging, through desperate, (and now embarrassing) behavior.
Maybe you realize that moving from one household to two Whatever the reason, it is my belief it CAN be done. (I highly recommend both.) Please don’t take my advice as a replacement for your own.
Within this article, I will tell you how I happened to do this (although some of it was just really dumb luck, but I finally wised up and hopefully, it doesn’t need to take you that long, nor do you need to be as as I was.) However, I do need to state, that before we go further, that I’m not a therapist or an expert.
We had no children at that time, but I was crushed, shocked, and despondent all the same.
Frankly, I never saw it coming and I’m typically pretty perceptive about these things, for goodness sake.
Dating as an institution is a relatively recent phenomenon which has mainly emerged in the last few centuries.