There was just one problem: I didn't want to throw myself back into the dating pool. I wasn't interested in meeting dozens of single men.I just wanted to find the right man, someone who was perfect for me.
(aka, "Why are you single: The Remix)This is one of those backhanded compliments that really has no response. As a Plus-Size Princess, I often wonder if the guys asking me out have dated big girls before (not that it matters, but I do wonder), and I’ve learned that the answer is rarely helpful.
When men say this to me, it makes me feel like something is wrong with me — especially because 99% of the men who use corny lines like this will not make any moves to take me off the market. If his last three girlfriends looked like Jennifer Lopez, I may feel insecure, but if his last three girlfriends looked like Rebel Wilson, I might wonder if he’s a chubby chaser.
Before we could go looking for correlations to deeper stuff, our first task was to decide which questions were even first-date appropriate.
I know each person has his own opinion on what’s okay to talk about with a stranger.
” The world already gives single girls the side-eye; there really is no need to bring up singledom on dates.